Cat and String Theory

Cat & String Theory (“trick” her to chase you)

Did you ever hear of the cat & string theory?:

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Did you ever watch a cat play with a string?

Well, when the string is dangling above its head, just out of reach, the cat goes crazy trying to get it.

It leaps in the air, dancing around, and chases it all over the room.

But as soon as you let go of the string and it drops right between the cat’s paws.

A weird thing happens.

It just looks at it for a second, gets bored, and then walks away.

Well, girls are the same exact way.

When she’s holding the power, its impossible for her to sleep with you.

It goes against her nature.

She wants to CHASE YOU.

This is why girls chase players and bad boys for years!

It’s because these guys are always “just out of reach.”

The first step in getting a girl to chase you, is to adjust your mindset.

My friend B discovered there are actually seven “paradigm shifts” you need to make in order to start thinking like a player.

Here are the 7 shifts you must make:

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Girls are sort of “pre-conditioned” to chase certain types of guys.

I call them players.

I’m talking about that guy you know who ALWAYS has a girl he can call.

No matter how late it is – he can pull out his phone and some girl is ready (eager) to come over to his place for sex.

And we’re not talking about fat or ugly chicks.

These guys are pulling the “good girl.” The girls you probably secretly have crushes on.  The girls you think would never go for him.

But she does.

Time and time again.  She chases him.  She desperately tries to please him in the bedroom. And she winds up dating him.

So the question becomes WHY?

Why is it “easy” for some guys?  And why do other guys seem to struggle with women their entire lives?

These guys “think” differently than the rest of us.

It’s not their looks.  It’s not how “smooth” they are. And its certainly not how much money they make.

It’s the way they “think.”

Here is a fundamental concept you MUST understand if you want to get better with women.

Thoughts =  ActionThoughts and Action

This means that the way you think determines how you act.

Let me give you a ‘real world’ example of how this works in the dating world.

If you think “women don’t like sex” or “I’m doing something wrong by hitting on a woman”

Your actions are a direct result of those thoughts.

This means you probably hesitate making a move on a girl. You hide your sexual intentions.  You downplay the fact that you want to sleep with her.

And women can pickup on this immediately.

She can sense your “hesitation.” She notices how self-aware you are. She gets a “vibe” that you would be BAD in bed.

Every thought you have produces an action.

Thoughts produce nervous gestures. Thoughts produce needy behavior.  Thoughts produce “trying too hard.”

This is why some guys- no matter how much dating advice they study- never seem to “get it.”

It has nothing to do with learning more techniques or lines.

And it has everything to do with the way they THINK.

Natural AttractionWhy do you think girls are “naturally” more attracted to players?

Hint. It’s a trick question.

The answer is they’re NOT.

Sometimes its quite the opposite. A girl’s first reaction to these guys are to dismiss them.  To blow them off.  Or to even make fun of them.

You’ve probably noticed this at some point.  A girl you knew talked shit about how she wasn’t attracted to his “type”

…And then she f*ck*d him.  And became desperate to make him her boyfriend.

So how did “thinking” get him laid?

This guy understood that attraction isn’t black or white. It’s a SLIDING SCALE.

He’s COMFORTABLE even when a women isn’t giving him signs. When she’s resisting him.  Even when she’s actively rejecting him.

Because he knows his only job is to keep tipping the scale towards attraction.  He never expected her to be instantly attracted to him.  He knew he was was going to have to work for it a bit.

On the other hand…

Too many guys think a woman needs to be instantly attracted to them.  And they can’t handle what I call the “grey zone”

The “Grey Zone” is that period where a woman still hasn’t made up her mind about you.

Here’s a secret.

Grey ZoneThe battle is WON or LOST in the Grey Zone.

And if you want to win more battles you need to change the way you THINK about “attraction.”

Thoughts = Action

And every decision you make it sending subtle signals to a woman letting her know if you’re worth talking to…

Learn to control your thoughts… And ultimately you learn to control what a woman THINKS about you.

Here’s the good part.

There are only 7 core thought differences that separate the “players” from the rest of us:

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