Love Systems instructors Tenmagnet and Cajun, of Keys to the VIP, talk about ways of curing and getting rid of approach anxiety. Every PUA has AA but the two pickup artists give away methods of eliminating approach anxiety. If you want to find out more on pickup, dating, and seducing women…
25 Responses to “ Overcoming Approach Anxiety – Love Systems with PUA Cajun and Tenmagnet ”
lionfacez on October 30, 2009 at 3:58 pm
ten magnet kinda looks like tom hanks
KyleNinja69 on October 30, 2009 at 3:58 pm
yeah after i did my first practice set i got confident and owned the next one
ethanlamers58 on October 30, 2009 at 3:58 pm
I read magic Bullets about a year and ago half ago and it has completely changed my dating life!..These guys know exactly what they are talking about. This stuff is absolute gold!
vision6961 on October 30, 2009 at 3:58 pm
These are GREAT. When will u guys release the next Podcast?
LSW1987 on October 30, 2009 at 3:58 pm
This is what tenmagnet and cajun look like? I thought you were gonna be like male models…I’m as goodlooking as you guys at the very least…but just get AA in the daytime…I mean – she will just tell me to fuck off she is busy!!
How the hell do you get round this? Its doing my head in
sleepx2 on October 30, 2009 at 3:58 pm
All these last posts is the reason I got out of the game (amongst life hitting me in-between the eyes). I couldn’t shut off my head. Even at work and school I was over analyzing everything. I would read people’s frame, subtext, and body language. It was great when I was out or in a set, but in my everyday life it sucked.
LoveSystems on October 30, 2009 at 3:58 pm
We were in Sydney just last week and we will be coming back within a couple of months. Check our website to stay up2date.
LoveSystems on October 30, 2009 at 3:58 pm
Everyone is overthinking this. Obviously Cajun and Tenmagnet fool around while giving really good dating advice. No wonder they call it the “low budget” podcast
TROX3L118 on October 30, 2009 at 3:58 pm
I totally understand where your at and I too do that sometimes. But theres no law that says you cannot come in with a higher energy and interact all while still using your third eye to read the person and what they are doing. To me tossing out the noticing/caring/assuming in interaction is like tossing out nutrition in a weight lifting program. It is okay to notice/care/assume as long as you dont come off as TRYING to seem like you dont care like this guy. He has a bad frame, that is my opinion
acebrawler73 on October 30, 2009 at 3:58 pm
yea they do seem to be trying a little hard. But i think the whole coming in singing a song pretending to notice the camera was more evident of trying too hard then the beer opening but i do know what you mean. It did look like he was trying to show how cool he was with his beer bottle trick. I’m just working on not noticing/caring/assuming that stuff as much as i do because i am stuck in my head way to much rather then interacting naturally and having fun.
TROX3L118 on October 30, 2009 at 3:58 pm
I think your answer has a lot to it and people do overthink, but the question is where to draw the line… These guys are playing the I dont care, we can have beards and crack beers open with our mouths and play acoustic guitar. I dont get that feeling with Neil Strauss, these guys come off as trying.. he doesnt. I love reading Body language it is extremely important to me. When it starts to hurt my game I will stop, but it has done nothing but help so far. I dont like this guy, thats my opinion
acebrawler73 on October 30, 2009 at 3:58 pm
dude you’re overthinking. I do it too. I look at everybody and try to figure out their alterior motive but most people, most of the time don’t have one. You’re gonna end up with poor inner game if you over analyze like that, i do and i’m working at stopping. A lot of guys (including myself) have to get out of our own heads.
JackDangles on October 30, 2009 at 3:58 pm
4:41 Hes right. Girls aren’t paying as much attention to what you’re saying as how you’re acting. They look at your body language, your tone and your reactions and judge whether or not you are calm and confident. If you’re twitchy, speaking nervously, and stumbling over words you’re out. What you actually say isn’t quite as important as how you say it.
dontplayformenero on October 30, 2009 at 3:58 pm
sympathy for the devil – rolling stones
maxy210 on October 30, 2009 at 3:58 pm
would u update your blog more please.
jasoncudbill on October 30, 2009 at 3:58 pm
wanna know how to overcome AA once and for all?…….DETACH FROM YOUR OUTCOME BEFORE YOU APPROACH EVERY SET…and dont care a shit what she thinks..
GleeDuck on October 30, 2009 at 3:58 pm
come sydney plz
YamatoXion on October 30, 2009 at 3:58 pm
hahahaha 0-1:36 made me laugh my head off!!
Great podcasts, I wish all my friends could have no AA without drinking lol less embarassment 4 me XD definately showing this to them!!
ValentinePUA on October 30, 2009 at 3:58 pm
AA can be a pain in the ass, I still get it from time to time but then I think everyone gets it, what I do is I approch a few other less attractive women and get my serotonin flowing and then just go for it a little later on, but it doesnt always work as you can become part of the background if you wait around to long.
Yeeowza on October 30, 2009 at 3:58 pm
Thanks guys. AA is still one of my biggest challenges.
ReaLisT355 on October 30, 2009 at 3:58 pm
Lol you guys are freakin awesome . These videos are so helpful MAKE MORE!!!
ten magnet kinda looks like tom hanks
yeah after i did my first practice set i got confident and owned the next one
I read magic Bullets about a year and ago half ago and it has completely changed my dating life!..These guys know exactly what they are talking about. This stuff is absolute gold!
These are GREAT. When will u guys release the next Podcast?
This is what tenmagnet and cajun look like? I thought you were gonna be like male models…I’m as goodlooking as you guys at the very least…but just get AA in the daytime…I mean – she will just tell me to fuck off she is busy!!
How the hell do you get round this? Its doing my head in
All these last posts is the reason I got out of the game (amongst life hitting me in-between the eyes). I couldn’t shut off my head. Even at work and school I was over analyzing everything. I would read people’s frame, subtext, and body language. It was great when I was out or in a set, but in my everyday life it sucked.
We were in Sydney just last week and we will be coming back within a couple of months. Check our website to stay up2date.
Everyone is overthinking this. Obviously Cajun and Tenmagnet fool around while giving really good dating advice. No wonder they call it the “low budget” podcast
I totally understand where your at and I too do that sometimes. But theres no law that says you cannot come in with a higher energy and interact all while still using your third eye to read the person and what they are doing. To me tossing out the noticing/caring/assuming in interaction is like tossing out nutrition in a weight lifting program. It is okay to notice/care/assume as long as you dont come off as TRYING to seem like you dont care like this guy. He has a bad frame, that is my opinion
yea they do seem to be trying a little hard. But i think the whole coming in singing a song pretending to notice the camera was more evident of trying too hard then the beer opening but i do know what you mean. It did look like he was trying to show how cool he was with his beer bottle trick. I’m just working on not noticing/caring/assuming that stuff as much as i do because i am stuck in my head way to much rather then interacting naturally and having fun.
I think your answer has a lot to it and people do overthink, but the question is where to draw the line… These guys are playing the I dont care, we can have beards and crack beers open with our mouths and play acoustic guitar. I dont get that feeling with Neil Strauss, these guys come off as trying.. he doesnt. I love reading Body language it is extremely important to me. When it starts to hurt my game I will stop, but it has done nothing but help so far. I dont like this guy, thats my opinion
dude you’re overthinking. I do it too. I look at everybody and try to figure out their alterior motive but most people, most of the time don’t have one. You’re gonna end up with poor inner game if you over analyze like that, i do and i’m working at stopping. A lot of guys (including myself) have to get out of our own heads.
4:41 Hes right. Girls aren’t paying as much attention to what you’re saying as how you’re acting. They look at your body language, your tone and your reactions and judge whether or not you are calm and confident. If you’re twitchy, speaking nervously, and stumbling over words you’re out. What you actually say isn’t quite as important as how you say it.
sympathy for the devil – rolling stones
would u update your blog more please.
wanna know how to overcome AA once and for all?…….DETACH FROM YOUR OUTCOME BEFORE YOU APPROACH EVERY SET…and dont care a shit what she thinks..
come sydney plz
hahahaha 0-1:36 made me laugh my head off!!
Great podcasts, I wish all my friends could have no AA without drinking lol less embarassment 4 me XD definately showing this to them!!
AA can be a pain in the ass, I still get it from time to time but then I think everyone gets it, what I do is I approch a few other less attractive women and get my serotonin flowing and then just go for it a little later on, but it doesnt always work as you can become part of the background if you wait around to long.
Thanks guys. AA is still one of my biggest challenges.
Lol you guys are freakin awesome
. These videos are so helpful MAKE MORE!!!
how that helps you ?
can’t believe it … where is the DHV here?
drink a beer or 2
SPAGGET!
Good shit guys. Cajun, update your blog.